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371 Euphemisms for Female Masterbation (1-120)

I picked today’s title and several hints throughout the article from this list of euphemisms…and WHO knew there were SO MANY? So the articles I found for this post may or may not be to your liking but they had me thinking, shouting and wanting to share. I have enclosed my personal thoughts in each article in (parentheses and bold)
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10 STUPID MALE MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT FEMALE MASTERBATION by The Frisky

Men, bless them. They love to think about us masturbating, at least the way they think we masturbate based on porn they’ve seen. If only they could be a fly on the wall when we’re actually pleasuring ourselves. Everything they thought to be true would be rocked. My average self-love sessions are performed without fanfare. Done with bad breath, messy hair, in my old sweat pants, before bed, when I wake up, am feeling stressed, or sad, or bored, or annoyed, or horny. After the jump, some stupid misconception guys have about the way we masturbate.

1.We stick anything and everything in our vaginas. I once had a guy pick up a sculpture of the Eiffel Tower I have on my bookshelf and ask me if I ever stuck it in my vagina. “Are you kidding me?” I asked. He replied, “If I were a woman, I would be sticking stuff in my vagina constantly.” This activated my germophobia beyond belief. All I could think about was what kind of crazy yeast infection I would get if I put that thing in my vag. If I put anything in my vagina — a finger, a vibrator, a penis — I am extremely concerned with it’s cleanliness. (OK who would put ANYTHING with sharp edges into themselves [and don’t you dare talk to me about the dude that broke the glass jar off in his ass.] I am not so much a germaphobe as the author of this article but geez talk about abusing yourself! Veggies yeah just wash and scrub them first, Eiffel Tower NO thank you.)

2. We always do it naked or in sexy lingerie. Men like the way I look naked, I know, but that doesn’t mean I get off on myself. I like my body, but I don’t strip down or put on lingerie to pleasure myself, at least not when diddling alone. I usually have my PJs on considering I tend to get business done before bed to help me fall asleep or when I wake up to help me get my ass up. I’m way too tired, lazy, or un-self-obsessed to take my clothes off. (Sounds about right but panties free is always helpful and since I typically sleep sans panties in a soft dress no real prep work necessary. Who is all that lingerie really for??? NOW you got it.)

3. That the mere sight of a d**k gets us off. I love d**ks for sucking, for f**king, for fondling. But I don’t look at d**ks when I masturbate, I usually think of the person attached to the penis or the act associated with it. A disembodied d**k is not the least bit sexy to me. Masturbation, for me, always starts with an erotic thought, not a phantom penis. (As a rule I don’t need anything if I am ready but porn is fun. I actually LIKE watching videos of men masturbating. But that is me. And yeah it has gotten me off but typically it is from the erotica I read. haha Phantom Penis that is rich.)

4. We masturbate with our girlfriends. This idea kills me. Would I ever call my girlfriends up when I’m horny and ask them to come over for a diddle party? Hell no! Even if I were a lesbian, that wouldn’t happen. Masturbation is private unless I’m doing it in front of a sex partner for fun. (Never done it but I am not a “Hell no!” either. To each her own.)

5. We fondle our boobs while we masturbate. Maybe there are some woman out there who fondle their tits when they touch themselves. But I never have. I am just concentrating on getting the job done. Touching my own boobs doesn’t even remotely excite me. (I didn’t always sensitive nipples. I couldn’t figure out the fascination. I have large breasts and often had very little sensation. That changed when I had kids and breastfed each of them for 3 plus years [it was awesome.] NOW I love nipple stimulation so maybe the author isn’t into it but for me it is like pulling a string and it is directly connected to my pussy. It is amazing!)

6. We need to masturbate every day. Our sex drives vary, lady to lady, and depending on phases in our lives. Personally, I’ve gone through periods of time where I do masturbate every day, or even several times a day. I’ve also gone through complete fondling droughts where I wasn’t into diddling myself for weeks. My self-pleasure drive is usually connected to my mental state or my hormones. I get hornier when I’m ovulating and when I have my period. My sex drive plummets when I’m going through any kind of stressful life event. (Have to agree here. Every day is different. There are days I get really turned on but don’t have the opportunity to ‘Flick the Bean’ because I have obligations or other shit going on but I can go weeks without then all of a sudden I am running for privacy wherever I am for a quick fix.)

7. We masturbate looking at pictures/porn of hot guys or hot girls. I know a few women who look at porn when they masturbate. Not me. It’s all in my head. I draw on past sexy experiences or fantasies when I’m doing it. I do look at porn, but not while I’m masturbating. It will turn me on, then I’ll masturbate, usually thinking about something else. (see #3)

8. We like to look at ourselves in the mirror or stand in front of windows while we do it. A guy once asked me if I masturbated in front of my living room window. I found this to be the most amusing question ever. I realize it was just because he wished he would walk by a window and find a woman masturbating. But no. Never. Watching myself or inviting some random person on the street to watch me does not turn me on. At all. (Tried it [the mirror not the window]… meh. Maybe I didn’t want to watch but it didn’t really do anything for me. As for the window all I can say is I don’t think my inner exobitionist is that into it.)

9. We stick our fingers inside of us. Some of us do, of course, but some of us use vibes or other toys. Some of us just rub something against our clit and never put anything inside. Some of us hump stuff. It depends what mood I’m in or how much energy I have. My fingernails are too sharp for a lot of finger action. I think I would lacerate my labia. No thanks. (I don’t own toys…yet… but I have gotten creative but typically I can agree that my fingers do not always delve inside to get the deed done.)

10. We think it’s really hot to masturbate in the shower. Men probably believe this because THEY masturbate in the shower. Actually, standing up is not an awesome position for me. I do have a shower head that I’ve aimed at my vagina before. I was like, Oh, there’s water shooting at my vagina. OK. Then I continued on with my shower. That was it. (Now here is where I DISAGREE! I love my shower head. [not a toy an essential tool] She was NOT using it right. It takes a skilled hand, patience and the right water pressure. I have it down to a science and standing is NOT a problem.)

Read the Full Article: http://www.thefrisky.com/2011-11-15/10-stupid-male-misconceptions-about-female-masturbation/”
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In the following article I took THIS away realizing it was what was most important. It went on to say other revelatory things and the author was very humorous about her experience but the quote below hit home.
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I WENT TO A FEMALE MASTURBATION CLASS by Rose Surnow

She explained, “Orgasms have been very important to my life. I’ve always really depended on them. In a bad mood? Jerk off. Confused? Masturbate. Working on a painting and I’m stuck? Go lay down on the couch and have an orgasm.”

Read the Full Article: http://nymag.com/thecut/2012/11/i-went-to-a-female-masturbation-class.html
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So off I go to double click my mouse…wink wink
Z

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